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at 8/23/2010 02:41:00 PM

Marriage isnt as simple as wat I used to think.. 2 person who is in love, n they can overcome everythin.. A happy marriage doesn't jus involve 2 person.. but also 2 side of family.. take for example, when quarrel arise, a gd in law will persuade to maintain e marriage.. n some in law will add fuel to e fire.. whether they advice to divorce or maintain e marriage.. it will need to take consideration on how well we communicate.. isnt it? same goes for friends around.. some pple reali listen to u.. n give u gd advice.. n some pple r there to give fake concern.. jus to c show..

im gald tat e communication between me n my in laws, so far so gd.. talk abt my father in law.. i appreicate tat he actually treat me like his own.. even when im in e room, he will knock on e door n ask me to come out n eat.. when he buy drinks.. he will inform me tat there is drink in e frige.. sometimes when i quarrel wif hubby, i will jus call him to nag n nag.. he reali listen to me.. n try to solve our problem when necessary.. he is reali a very very gd father in law!

my mother in law, erm.. she has e same character as me.. from wat i c.. being straight forward.. n she is a thrifty person.. she will use e money to help her children instead of spending on her own stuff.. so when i hav money issue wif my hubby.. she is e one to approach to.. cuz she can fully understand my reason behind.. when i need to find out things abt hubby.. she will definately tell me.. she dun cover things for kcx.. jus bcuz he is her son.. she once told me.. she only admit me as her daughter in law (kcx wife).. jus in case kcx do anythin outside.. she will not admit at all.. i seriously feel touch :)

talk abt mei mei.. e closest person to me in his family.. sometimes.. muz reali thank her for everythin tat she has helped.. from e start of my marriage till now.. i remember.. e actual day of my weddin.. kcx was drunk.. he vomitted on my bed.. n i cried.. cuz i dun noe how to change e bedsheet.. when she saw me crying.. she came to my room n c wat happen.. she help me to change my bedsheet.. to clean e floor.. even until now.. when i bring duckie hm.. she reali help me to take care of him.. to rock him to slp when we havent buy e auto rocker.. to carry him when we r bz.. for once.. kcx went to work on sat.. she say she will take care n ask me to get some rest.. she is one who look like her mum.. a person who is straight forward.. i dun hav to worry tat she will tell her mum my bad things behind me.. like wat some "xiao gu" is doin.. cuz when she got query.. she will jus come to my face n ask me why.. she like to laugh.. so i suppose.. im safe wif her..

now tat i hav come so far.. im proud to say tat i hav learned.. i no longer cry in front of e bedsheet.. wondering wat to do.. i no longer need my mum to b wif me.. to help me wash my clothing.. IM NO LONGER TAT LITTLE PRINCESS I USED TO B! thanks to my law.. for being so understanding.. they knew tat i used to b a pampered gal.. they nv make life difficult for me.. for willing to fork out e money for my marriage.. thanks mei mei for all her help.. n of course.. my precious mum n hubby!